Gradually, the idea has gained ground. And today, it is decided you want a child. This passage is a major milestone in the life of a woman. And it will be for you a wonderful adventure ... for which you will be well prepared.You have often mentioned on the joke, and humor has given way to envy, this time it's decided, you will make a baby!
The history of life
Around you, friends you have spoken, you have laid on dozens of magazines, you have devoured books, spent hours and hours on newsgroups "wanted child" ... You may know that the female body is made for this, that since the humanity are more than 60 million children are born ... you still a little apprehensive about this great unknown, this upheaval. Regardless of what others felt, this is a personal adventure, and your experience will be unique. Your pregnancy will not resemble that of your best friend or your mother. Your pregnancy, it will be your story, nine months alone, nine months in a rare life.
Become adult
Having a child is in any case an important step in your story: you go from a woman than mother. For the child psychiatrist Marcel Rufo, "is the real transition to adulthood." We accept no longer be your own child, to transmit its values to a new being. And that changes a lot of things around us: the relationship with her own parents of course, but more general perspective on the world. It also becomes adult because it acquires new responsibilities. And what responsibility! A new being who will discover the world around them and who should be given the keys to progress in life.
Understand her desire
There are many reasons for wanting to be pregnant to feel woman, exposing her femininity, "prove" that her body works ... Marcel Rufo, "if the desire of pregnancy and the desire for a child is sometimes confused, the desire for a child has a different meaning. This is the story of a couple, a family that is being built. Its a story of love, the realization of her relationship with her spouse. The desire for a child represents the hope to extend in time and show everyone that each member of the couple is finally out of the Children being able to match her parents. " While it is important to know what motivates this desire for a child, she must also know sometimes listen to her body, as you listen to her feelings. Simply. Unless there are insurmountable obstacles, do not hesitate if you feel that this is a good time!
Be prepared
Should not be expected, you have to prepare for this great adventure. Consultations and examinations, good eating habits and lifestyle ... Once you have the plan to make a baby, put all the chances on your side, so that cloud does squander this unique adventure. To give everything to your future child ... and the following!
